Ek Rishta Ek Ehsaas..!!!!!!

"Someone Somewhere is made for everyone.."

We are gifted with number of relations some by birth and some by choice. Be it with your parents, siblings, cousins, uncle aunt, friends, or your life partner but what I felt is the most interesting one is with your life partner...  To whatever extent one gets closure to their family, cousins or friends but the beauty of relation with your life partner is just unexplainable; full of surprises, excitement and nervousness, one relation that can arouse all the sensations.

How simply this one relation makes you go mad and wild... The feeling of nervousness of what to say or who will start first… that teaches you not to talk with words but just with eyes...  where a simple touch makes u shiver and just seeing the name makes u feel the person in front of ur eyes or brings a smile on your face… an excitement to get to know bout each other... Curiosity to share the things firstly with that person… waiting for their call all the day even of not having things to talk about but still that desperation of hearing the voice.. feeling of possessiveness and insecurity.. need of having the person just next to u, holding u and making u feel everything gonna alright, I am there with u..

The only relation that makes u forget your all other relations and becomes important of all.. shows u all the turmoil of emotions and mixture of feelings.. one that shows different shades of life.. a journey from where love starts to blossom to the deepest n purest level of love..a road that takes turn from being hesitant towards being mine.. 

This was all about those moments when someone just enters into a relationship but what form does it take when it reaches to its next level.. Do these feelings remain same when taking turn from one side to other or will it get more deeper with each passing time that needs to be unveiled  ;)

YAADON KE IDIOT BOX SE..

Kuch Yaadein Hai Un Lamho Ki

Jin Lamho Mei Hum Saath Rehte The

Ek Umr Beeti Thi Yu

Khushiyon Se Bhare Wo Jazbaat Rahe

EK Waqt Guzaara Hai Humne

Jahan Rote Huye Bhi Haste The

Kya khoob Wo Manjar Hota Tha

Kuch Kehte The, Kuch Sunte The

Kitna Haste The Har Pal

Jab Bhi Hum Milte The

Hoti Thi Subah Bas Tera Naam Lekar

Kaati Thi Har Raat Wo Baaton Mei Doob Kar

Rehta Tha Har Din Bas Fir Milne Ka Intezaar

Badi Mushkil Se Jiya Wo Lamha Har Baar

Ye Baatein Hain Un Lamho Ki

Jab Saath Raha Hum Karte The

Kuch Kehte The, Kuch Sunte The

Har Pal Ek Sadiyaan Jeete The…..

Be With You...

I sat at home,

Wishing you were in my arms.
I closed my eyes and pictured 'us'
Together, looking into each other's eyes,
Revealing all that is hidden
And all that is true.

I sat in my room,
Thinking about how beautiful and perfect you are,
And I realized how lucky I was to be with you.
Someone who really cares about me,
Someone who actually feels the same,
And I can't help but cry.

I do not cry tears of sadness,
But tears of happiness,
Because I have found the one person who makes me happy,
And makes my life complete.

I can't help wanting to have your soft lips on mine.
Because I feel without you there can be no me.
I need you to help me,
Through the day,
Through the good,
And through the bad.

I need you to be you,
Because that is who I have fallen in love with.
I love you so much,
My heart stops when I hold you close,
I love you so much,
I can feel it deep down inside my soul.
I love you for who you are,
And who you want to be.

And, when I say, "I love you"
I put my heart, my soul, and my life into it...

Tug Of War..!!!

As we grow up, our needs keeps on changing when we were kids, we like to spend time with our family then when we enter our school or college life, we become more closer to our friends than our family but after a certain point of time inspite of having close friends/ bestest buddies, we always find a sense of loneliness or incompleteness.. a feeling to have someone who is there only for you with whom you can share anything and who keeps on listening to you or even understand you when you dont even speak..someone with whom you want to live your whole life and to grow old with them....

But sometime we come across with a person with whom we want to live forever but cant do so coz of being trapped in the tug of war between emotional and practical views of the so-called society.. Where on one hand it is already difficult to understand how and what have made you fallen for someone, other hand u start thinking about others whether it will be accepted by them or not.. Is it the life of yours or of somebody's else ???? whose acceptance plays that much importance in your life.. you have to spend the life with the person or this society.. one never thinks from mind with whom it should happen even u dont realize when it happens

If u fall for a relationship with someone with whom even you haven't thought then what you will do whether leave that person just because of what our so-called society will say about this or will you take a stand for the person who means everything to you and like to live your life with person

This has also remind me of our famous wedding culture where our society believe in kundli milan (horoscope matching) that serves as a lifetime guarantee for the people that its gonna be a successful one while generally it happens where your stars match but your thoughts wont.. so one should get married to someone where your stars are matching or with someone where you know its gonna rock your world being with that special one whom you know you can spend your entire life happily.. 

Strange Relations - Ankhaein Rishte...

Its been a very long time I haven't written something.. may be just because i didn't find anything that will capture my thoughts so that i can share up..but for a new start.. just thought to give a new look towards life.. with some unexplained /unnamed relations...

Life is full of surprises where it may take you, which twist or turn may change your entire life.. when, how or with whom you may meet in the journey and you never know in what relation it may turn out...

We live with many relations always being named by us or by society, be it with our parents, siblings, friends etc. but sometimes we come across with certain relationships that can’t be named.. some strange kind of which you even haven't thought of, which just had happened or might have been changed from one to other… but you want to live that relation and be with that person, although it might just last for a short period but even for that period you are ready to do anything as it might have become everything to you that you just don’t want it to come to an end...

"Life doesn’t need to be perfect to be wonderful.. Sometimes wrong decisions can also make some of the very best stories... "

Nothing can happen without a reason..sometimes we feel like are we really doing the right thing?? but relations don't need any explanation coz what i felt is everything is predecided with whom and how you have to meet, to find our soulmate..  and believes sometimes we met with someone either because some relations that couldn't be happened in your past birth but that has to be completed in your next and that's how you never get it realized when you have fallen for it...

Wo kehte hai na, "Tera Mujhse Hai Pehle Ka Naata Koi, Yuhi Nahi Dil Lubhata Koi.."

Have read somewhere, "The best feeling in this world is to be meant something for someone.." There's always some emptiness inside everyone which we want to share with and keep on searching for that one day someone will come and just makes u forget about your loneliness and you fall for them..Its sounds so strange that how just one person can change your entire life.. you just like to be with that someone all the time and nobody else.. 

But somehow you have to let go that person coz you are not meant to be with each other... so instead of feeling sad, try to make most of the time you are meant to be together and enjoy the ride that gives you enough memories to make your journey worth living...and who knows while living that time, it may come out with some unexpected result..

Reminded with a very true saying,

"When You Really Want Something To Happen, Then The Whole Universe Conspires So That Your Wish May Come True...!!!

A Walk To Remember...!!!

A very common quote provoked me to write about that people keeps on saying very often, “Love happens only once..” Although I also find it somewhat true; we fall in love only once with a person but I think something more should be added to this i.e. “Love Happens Only Once Until You Find Someone Else..”  as to fall in love again it never happens with the same person  with whom you always wanted to be with but that didn’t happen because of certain reasons..  but someday someone else comes to our life and  you will never get it realized when it happened and with whom you fell in love again as we never came to know when it begins...  

We trust someone with our own decision but to prove you right or wrong, is always the other person’s choice… if someone has betrayed your trust, is it your fault or that person’s fault?? What if you love someone and that person didn’t love you in return or just played with your emotions and keep you in dark?? And if you still forgive that person, are you really making some mistake?? I think committing a mistake is very easy but forgiving someone makes you really strong… why to show your suffering to that person and let them enjoy your pain.., your hate for them will never affect that person but bothers you only and makes you the ultimate sufferer coz either way you are just thinking about them only.. may be your forgiveness make them realize for hurting you..

Life is too short to waste time hating anyone..

We might get enough reasons to cry but finding a reason to smile makes the ride worthwhile.. If our one wish is not granted we think that life isn’t fair to us.. till the time you are getting everything, your every wish keeps on granted, you think life is very beautiful.. and then just one incident shattered you out completely and you are ready to leave up everything else that gives you happiness.. If we aren’t with the person whom we love, it just because somebody else is waiting for you somewhere but you never know when you will meet that person.. it might be someone sitting next to you who actually cares for you, but you just didn’t realize that coz you were already lost in the things happened to you..

Out of the darkness, comes the promise of light..Out of the violence of past, comes the dreams of future..

Have a break and try a new look towards life, may be it will show you something interesting worth living and make the life seems more beautiful..

Just reminded with some lyrics that will add up more:

Raat Lambi Sahi Fir Bhi Ek Raat Hai, Subah Ho Jayegi Sau Baaton Ki Baat Hai...

Fir Jaagegi Ye Fiza, Fir Dil Ka Ek raasta.. 

Le Jaayega Tujhe Wahin Tujhe Teri Hai  Manzil Jahan…

Gamm Na Kar Tu Jo Murjhaa Gaye.. Phool Khil Jaayenge Fir Naye...

When Universe Conspires...!!!!

From past so many days i was just thinking about what to write upon.. its been like am loosing somewhere or just lost with my thoughts...anyways let me share with you another lesson of life...

In  our life, some of the decisions are taken by us but some of the decisions are taken by destiny.... We have always been lead to the path where destiny wants to take us, where it has planned for us.. but sometimes it doesn't lead u direct to the path and imposes some hurdles just to make you strong to walk on the road ahead...

Mistakes are the part of living... Appreciate your mistakes for what they are as the precious lessons of life can only be learned the hardest way... 

Have read in one of the book by Paulo Coelho, "Accept what life offers you and try to drink from every cup. All wines should be tasted; some should only be sipped but with others, drink the whole bottle... as you can only know a good wine if you have first tasted a bad one.. " 

But do remember, What goes around will come around one day too... the way we have given the love or hate it will come the same way, coz it might be somebody else today but tomorrow it might be you...